Rong and Nia visited me today.... slightly cheering me up. Those who havent seen me for ages exclaimed the same thing over and over again: You have slimmed down a lot! And those who are constantly feeling fat expressed the same sentiments again: How I wish I can be down with an illness like you. Please... it isnt healthy to lose weight this way... Imagine yourself no longer enjoying the food that's placed in front of you.. Eating has become more of a chore and a necessity rather than an enjoyment. I used to eat my food heartily, enjoying every single bite. I wish I'll be able to do that again, soon, I hope. Havent seen the girls for months ever since they stepped into the corporate world. Both appeared listless, tired and not as talkative as before. I guess that's the aftereffects of work. Seems to have a toll on them. Weekends have turned into "days of rest" for them in which they sleep in, to compensate for their sleep debts. No longer havoc on weekends as they used to be haha... Makes me smile for a while. Their changes are drastic. Nia has been thinking of changing jobs due to her superior but i urged her not to since she enjoys her work and her colleagues are nice. So just hang in there for a while more... Rong seems to treat her job as something routined and indispensable. Not much job satisfaction in there. Had a nice catching up session with the girls though. One thing hasnt changed pretty much. always have conversations regarding kinky stuff with the girls. Only them..cuz others find it a taboo topic or are too shy. Not everyone is so open minded to such topics. Previously, it was about brazilian waxing, another time about sex shops. This reminds me of a question that my cousin asked me yesterday. She asked if I have heard of anyone going for IPL down there. Frankly speaking, I havent. Only heard people doing it for their legs and armpits. But down there? It seems odd enough! Yes, the hair is unsightly and bothersome, but I think it serves a purpose. To prevent built up of bacteria or so...not exactly sure. And some guys wouldnt prefer their partners to be totally bare. According to mom, these women are termed as "white tigers or foxes" and are perceived as unlucky. So, in my holy opinion, just keep the hair there and not remove it permanently....just go for occasional waxing for hygiene purposes. One thing that I must agree is that it's definitely cleaner during the time of the month. Cousin argues that we are living for ourselves, not for men's sake and a man has got to love you for who you are. She has a point too. Well, being the submissive me, I have a tendency to want to please others. Hahha. Oops. Something bad! Cant be helped...personality factors! Enough of digression... back to today's happenings.
So the topic for today is about sex toys. Not that they deliberately started the topic on it..topic came into place when Nia browsed through the sex section in the Herworld mag. It's our favourite section. Haha. Guess that can be attributed mainly to our curiosity. Sex education. So this time round, we were talking about this new sex toy that comes in a weird shape: a couple vibrator called we-vibe. Sounds weird to me. Apparently it can be used on the male and female at the same time. Sounds complicated though and it comes in a weird shape. We were puzzled about how it actually works. Rong then went on to search for videos... it's really funny! Luckily we werent led to porno sites. It's really a complicated tool. The female must wear it in the correct position (must hit the g-spot... who even knows where that spot is, it has no labels? Goodness!) while allowing the male to penetrate. If wrongly positioned, then it backfires. So troublesome right? It has good reviews though... If it can spice up sex lives, then why not? Wanted to get one for my sister as a birthday gift (normal vibrator) but i guess they are shy to try out. I guess both parties need to be receptive to the idea though. My brother in law looks kind of stern.... haha, so I dropped that thought. Dun want to get lectured by them over this.
Here's a look at this complicated tool. It even has a charger...
My girls surprised me with birthday gifts! A bag of undies from La Senza... And a bag! Mom's gonna nag again... Gotta hide the bag in the wardrobe... no space!
They got me size Petite and Medium! Happy... but the petite looks like it can fit a large size! My favourite one is the one with polka dots and lace while the least favourite is the leopard print one. Leopard prints are not my kind of thing. Give me more lace please! I can stop buying undies for some time... yeah happy!
