Hold Your Tongue Please

Today's not a good day at work, not because of the residents, but because of some insensitive remarks being made to me. So I was happily eating my lunch halfway, then came the new colleague who is only 3 weeks old now n he blurted that I need to eat less to lose weight. Ok, that made me lose my appetite entirely. I m not so affected if u say I m fat when I m not eating. But when I m doing so, it really bothers me a lot. So, I gave him my widest fake smile, n quickly finished up n went back to work. There, I swear I won't talk to him unless circumstances require me to. He does that to others who are bigger in size too. So irritated because it's no one's business abt how I look. It's only mine! When I was thinner, people comment, when I m rounder, people comment too. It probably kills u to stfu n mind your own business. The sad thing is society actually condones such bullying behavior. I shall steer clear of this brainless man frm Monday onwards. It just reminds me of my evil relatives. Oh yes, did I mention that there was this day in which I bumped into my evil relative in my neighborhood? She called out to me, made eye contact with me, blurted out a few sentences, and all I did was to walk away, no eye contact, no acknowledgement, nothing. The funny thing was my sis was behind me n my sis did e exact same thing. Haha.... You may think I m rude, because after all she is senior n I ought to respect her. But if she doesn't respect me, why should I do so? She always says I m fat, without fail, every Chinese new year. She humiliates others too. So why should I talk to her, if I know that talking to her will make me upset for a couple of hours there after? Until the day she learns to stop hurting others, then I'll probably give her a chance. But too bad, I m moving out of this estate soon, away from all the nasty relatives. So probably I won't get a chance to see her again. Oh well, even better for me!

Once again thankful for having those residents with me. They are old n frail n they sometimes scold me. But NEVER once do they make personal attacks. They nv stoop so low as to do that.